The Surrogacy Journey Continues……
By: Markay Mason
In my previous blog post, I shared the beginning of my surrogacy process and how I found my surrogacy agency, Pathways To Parenthood. Their expertise ensured that I was matched with the best intended parents ever! It was very important to me that I shared the amazing surrogacy journey with the right match. It was important to Pathways To Parenthood also, and they made sure it was the best match for all parties.
After the matching process, all the remaining steps in the surrogacy process went very smoothly. From the medical evaluation at the fertility clinic, to navigating the legal process, to preparing for embryo transfer, Pathways To Parenthood was there every step of the way.
And then there was the embryo transfer! It was a success-we were pregnant! Because my intended parents had experienced so much loss, they did not want to know the outcome until I was really, really pregnant! Soooo I kept my exciting news secret. I felt like I was going to burst with excitement and joy! But I kept it secret from them until the 6-week ultrasound. I will never forget the look on my intended mom’s face when she saw her little bitty baby on the screen! It was the best surprise ever!
Each passing day, week, and doctor’s appointment, I am feeling more and more joy anticipating the birth of this very special baby boy. My heart is so full, and I am so anxious and excited to give my amazing intended parents the best gift. He is going to be such a light in so many lives-including my own. As we get closer to my due date, I am fully understanding why they call surrogacy a journey. It has taken me to places I could have never imagined. It has been such a humbling beautiful experience. I can’t wait for this little boy to be born. Stay tuned….
Before I go, if you are considering becoming a surrogate, especially if you live in Kansas or Missouri, Pathways To Parenthood is your go to for expertise in surrogacy. They will provide reliable information about all aspects of surrogacy. Plus, they care about their surrogates and it shows! Give Kerry a call at 913-469-5500 or email her at kerry@pathwaystoparenthood.com.
The Life Changing Journey of Surrogacy: By Markay Mason
As a 28 year-old military wife and girl mom of two, my husband and I decided our family was complete. We were 100% sure we were not going to have more kids. But I still had a strong desire to be pregnant again. I had a great idea-SURROGACY!
I had considered becoming a surrogate many times before. But the timing was never right. Now that the timing was right, I had to get my husband on board! We sat down and had “the surrogacy talk”. He was supportive of me and fully on board. I was so excited!!
At the time, we were living overseas in Okinawa, Japan, soon to be heading to Whiteman Airforce Base in Missouri. I decided to do some research about surrogacy in Missouri, and surrogacy in Kansas, and found my surrogacy agency, Pathways To Parenthood. After talking with Kerry Christifano at Pathways To Parenthood, I knew her agency was where I belonged. She made me feel welcome, loved, and so at home. I did not know what was going to happen after talking with Kerry, but told myself if it was meant to be, then it would be.
Pathways To Parenthood helped me understand the steps in the surrogacy process, answered all of my questions, as well as my husband’s questions. They made the screening process seamless and stress-free. After the screening process, I was matched with intended parents that could not have been a better fit for me and my family. It all seemed too good to be true! But it wasn’t! The surrogacy journey continued. I will share more of my surrogacy journey very soon.
Before I go, if you are considering becoming a surrogate, especially if you live in Kansas or Missouri, Pathways To Parenthood is your go to for expertise in surrogacy. They will provide reliable information about all aspects of surrogacy. Plus, they care about their surrogates and it shows! Give Kerry a call at 913-469-5500 or email her at kerry@pathwaystoparenthood.com.
Surrogacy Close To Home
If you live in Kansas or Missouri and have considered becoming a surrogate or working with a surrogate, contact Pathways To Parenthood today! We are located in the Kansas City area and offer you not only surrogacy expertise, but a safe surrogacy process with short-distance travel, or travel by car. With all of the risks in today’s world with coronavirus, our location is ideal to ensure safety during your surrogacy process that does not require flying or long-distance travel.
The majority of our surrogates and families live in the Midwest in Kansas, Missouri, Iowa, Nebraska, and Illinois. We have also helped surrogates and families with the surrogacy process that live in Colorado, Oklahoma, and Arkansas. If you prefer to work with a surrogacy agency that offers matching with a surrogate or families that live in the Midwest, Pathways To Parenthood is the surrogacy agency for you!
We understand that location is not the only consideration that is important to consider when choosing your surrogacy agency. We also offer unparalleled service and experience. We value our surrogates and our families that trust us to join them in one of the most important events in their lives. We offer free consultations so contact us today to learn more! You can reach us at 913-469-5500, or
kerry@pathwaystoparenthood.com. We look forward to hearing from you soon!
Preparing For Your Surrogacy Process: How To Talk To Your Kids
If you plan to become a surrogate, there are many factors to consider. There are also many questions you probably have about how things will work and what to expect.
Common questions many women have when preparing to become a surrogate are related to how to talk to their children about their plans. Their questions usually are similar to these questions:
- When should I tell my children about my plans to become a surrogate?
- Will my children understand what being a surrogate means?
- How will my surrogacy process and surrogacy pregnancy impact my children?
These are really good questions, and it is beneficial to have really good answers before becoming a surrogate. Here are a few pointers that will help you in creating your plan of how to talk to your children about surrogacy.
- There is no a perfect time to tell your children about your plans to become a surrogate. What is most important is that you tell them before you become pregnant. Most surrogates wait until they are matched with intended parent(s) and medically cleared by a fertility clinic before telling their children. This plan ensures your children will not be confused if ultimately you are not able to move forward in being a surrogate.
- It is important to tell your children about your plans to become a surrogate before you are pregnant. This plan communicates to them that it is a family decision, AND that their opinion matters! If your children are younger than 2 or 3 years old, this is not as important. However, children as young as 3 or 4 can undoubtedly benefit from hearing they are part of a family decision, and that what they think and feel matters!
- For the most part, children are positively impacted by their moms being a surrogate. They are usually excited about a baby being born and being a part of helping another family. Like most other life experiences, children tend to mimic their parent’s feelings and actions about a particular topic. If you and your partner/spouse are happy and positive about the surrogacy process and journey, your children will most likely have a similar response to it.
To learn more about becoming a surrogate or working with a surrogate, contact Pathways To Parenthood today to schedule a free consultation appointment. You can reach us at 913-469-5500 or kerry@pathwaystoparenthood.com. We are the Surrogacy Experts and are ready to help you get started!