Supporting Fathers-To-Be Through Surrogacy
The road of infertility is generally a winding one with unexpected twists and turns. When the path involves surrogacy there are even more steps and unknowns, seemingly overwhelming at times. Furthermore, it can be particularly hard to make sense of these emotional issues when others are celebrating milestones such as fatherhood. While each surrogacy experience is unique, the one commonality is the emotional toll on intended parents. One of the many benefits of using a surrogacy agency is the support they can provide for all fathers as they embark on their journey to parenthood.
One area that can be particularly difficult are celebratory events such as Father’s Day. The role as a Father-To-Be is important and deserves recognition and support. While each individual and couple move through infertility and the surrogacy process differently, there are some ways to help ease the struggle. Open and honest communication are vital to move forward as a couple. It may also help to plan ahead for times that others are celebrating and be prepared to handle the questions from family and friends about surrogacy, the surrogacy process or your surrogacy agency.
Some other ways to support the Father-To-Be in your life, whether it is your partner, your son, your brother, or a close friend. Ask him what he wants, or doesn’t want to do, on Father’s Day. Holidays are usually associated with family traditions that can become an emotional roller coaster when in the midst of family building treatments and/or going through the surrogacy process. Holidays can be a painful reminder of what you do not (yet) have. Offer reassurance that he will be supported in whatever he decides he wants to do this holiday.
If your Father-To-Be is a partner or spouse, one option is to plan a couples day for the two of you. While family and friends mean well, unless they have battled infertility and the surrogacy process, they really don’t get the struggle holidays bring. Celebrating Father’s Day in a different way that involves focus on you as a couple may be a refreshing and distracting way to get through the difficult holiday. When you are in the surrogacy process it can feel like everything revolves around getting pregnant. You can make this day an infertility / surrogacy-free time to reconnect in ways you did as a couple before pregnancy/having a baby took over your life.
Fathers’ Day can be a time to reflect on how far you’ve come. The journey to get to the surrogacy process likely has been a long one. The Father-To-Be in your life has probably made many sacrifices to get to this point. He likely envisions what it will be like to be a dad. As a couple the two of you can decide the new traditions you want to create once your baby arrives.
We realize there are many different journeys to parenthood. If you have considered helping a family become parents by becoming a surrogate, contact Pathways to Parenthood today and get started! If having a baby through surrogacy and/or egg donation is an option you are considering to make your dreams of becoming a parent come true, we want to hear from you! Take the first step and contact Pathways to Parenthood today. We have helped surrogates and intended parents come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois and Arkansas. If you live in the Midwest, we are the surrogacy agency for you! You can contact us at 913-469-5500 or at www.pathwaystoparenthood.com
Parents-To-Be Through Surrogacy: Lance Bass & Michael Turchin
Congratulations to Lance Bass and Michael Turchin . You can read here about their incredible journey below just published in People. Their journey has been a long and difficult one. Everyone’s journey is different, and thankfully not as challenging as theirs has been! But their strength, persistence and patience has paid off. They found their perfect surrogacy agency, perfect egg donor, and perfect surrogate. Now it is all NSYNC (lol!), they are expecting twins, their long-awaited dream. We are so thankful they shared their stories so that others embarking on a similar journey can see that there is light at the end of the tunnel!
If you have considered helping a family become parents by becoming a surrogate, contact Pathways To Parenthood today and get started! If having a baby through surrogacy and/or egg donation is an option you are considering to make your dreams of becoming a parent come true, we want to hear from you! Take the first step and contact Pathways To Parenthood today. We have helped surrogates and intended parents come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois, Arkansas and Ohio. If you live in the Midwest, we are the surrogacy agency for you! You can contact us at 913-469-5500 or at www.pathwaystoparenthood.com
Link to article provided below:
https://people.com/parents/lance-bass-michael-turchin-expecting-twins-november-exclusive/
Demystifying the Surrogacy Process
For those who have not experienced surrogacy it can seem like a foreign concept, so it is no surprise people have a lot of questions related to the surrogacy process. Hopefully by better understanding the common terms, processes and procedures used during a surrogacy journey, you will feel more comfortable discussing the topic. Women who make this incredibly generous choice to become a surrogate are inspired by various circumstances. Oftentimes they have seen people close to them struggle with fertility. Whatever your reason may be for considering it, remember to have confidence in knowing that surrogacy is a beautiful way for people and science to come together in helping create or add to families.
What is a surrogate? People often do not know the difference between traditional versus gestational surrogates. As your surrogacy agency, Pathways To Parenthood’s journeys are always with a Gestational Carrier. This means the carrier does not share any genetic connection to the baby she carries. Rather, embryos are created with the parents’ genetic material. Sometimes donor sperm and/or eggs are needed. In these cases, the surrogate will not be the egg donor.
How does a surrogate get pregnant? With a surrogate pregnancy, intended parents go through in vitro fertilization (IVF) to create embryos. The surrogate takes medication to prepare her body for a pregnancy, a high-quality embryo is chosen and transferred to the surrogate’s uterus for her to carry.
How are surrogates chosen? The women that come to Pathways To Parenthood come to us with a desire to help and our surrogacy agency takes pride in a thorough screening process. This involves learning the motivation for becoming a surrogate. Furthermore, we evaluate each applicant’s physical health, mental health, obstetric history, background, financial situation and insurance coverage. There are many steps that take place between thinking about becoming a surrogate and actually matching with intended parents. We help our surrogates gain as much information as possible so that they can make the right decision for them when it comes time to match with intended parents.
We realize there are many different journeys to parenthood. If you have considered helping a family become parents by becoming a surrogate, contact Pathways To Parenthood today and get started! If having a baby through surrogacy and/or egg donation is an option you are considering to make your dreams of becoming a parent come true, we want to hear from you! Take the first step and contact Pathways To Parenthood today. We have helped surrogates and intended parents come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois and Arkansas. If you live in the Midwest, we are the surrogacy agency for you! You can contact us at 913-469-5500 or at www.pathwaystoparenthood.com
A Beautiful Surrogacy Story
Recently, Kristen Welker, NBC News chief White House correspondent, and her
husband, shared their good news! They are expecting their first child, a baby girl,
with the help of a surrogate.
Her story is like so many others. It is truly awe inspiring that Kristen would be
willing to share such a personal and difficult life experience so that she can help
others. There are so many emotions that come up for people when they begin to
explore building their family through surrogacy and/or egg donation. It is very
helpful to read about other people’s stories and journeys, like Kristen’s. Read her
story below at link that is provided.
If it is in your heart to help a family become parents by becoming a
surrogate, contact Pathways To Parenthood today and get started. If
having a baby through surrogacy is an option you are considering, take
the first step and contact Pathways To Parenthood today! They are a
surrogacy agency that has helped surrogates and intended parents
come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois,
and Arkansas. If you live in the Midwest, they are the surrogacy agency
for you! You can reach them at 913-469-5500 or at
www.pathwaystoparenthood.com.
Link to Kristen’s story:
https://www.today.com/parents/kristen-welker-expecting-first-baby-surrogate-t215562