8 Signs You Would Make A Good Surrogate

8 signs you would make a good surrogate If you’re like many women considering becoming a surrogate, you’ve known for a long time that this is something you want to do. But every woman who considers surrogacy asks herself the same questions: Would I make a good surrogate? Is surrogacy right for me?

Choosing to carry a pregnancy for someone else is a big, life-changing decision, and there are many factors to consider before becoming a surrogate mother. Here are eight things to consider to help determine whether surrogacy is right for you.

 

You’re Becoming A Surrogate Mother For The Right Reasons

While being a surrogate has its financial benefits, money can’t be your biggest motivation. A surrogate should be someone who is primarily focused on giving, not receiving. Women who make amazing surrogates are those who hope to give an incredible gift and make a real impact on another person’s life.

You Are Healthy
One of the most important qualifications for a surrogate is a healthy lifestyle and medical history. This helps ensure a healthy pregnancy for both you as the surrogate, and the child you carry. Certain physical qualifications need to be met, such as a healthy body mass index (BMI), not being a smoker or drug user, and be within a certain age limit.

You Have Had A Healthy Pregnancy/Pregnancies
You must have had at least one healthy, complication free pregnancy and delivery. You cannot have had more than 5 pregnancies however, or more than 2 C-section deliveries.

You Enjoy Being Pregnant

Some women simply glow throughout their pregnancies. While many women couldn’t imagine being pregnant because they love being pregnant, surrogates have a special connection to pregnancy and often feel their best when carrying a child, whether that be for their own family or someone else’s.

You Are Organized

Surrogacy doesn’t just come together — it takes months of planning, interviews, meetings, and more before you even begin the pregnancy process. Throughout pregnancy, it’s imperative to track important pregnancy metrics, keep up with doctor’s visits, and maintain your everyday life at home, all the while planning for your impending delivery. Because of this, surrogate mothers must have strong organizational skills to be able to balance the demands of everyday life and being a surrogate.

You Are A Good Communicator
Good Communication is key to being a surrogate. Your Intended Parent’s will want to know how you’re doing, what’s coming up, and what they can help with. They’ll also want to see photos and maybe an occasional video. It’s important to know how to be open and honest with all involved parties though the surrogacy process.

You Have A Good Support Network

No matter how strong you are, there will always be times when you need the support of other people. Friends and family are essential, and they should be on hand whether you need to celebrate, talk things over, or cry on a shoulder. They’ll also need to accompany you to certain appointments and procedures. In fact, one of the prerequisites when applying to become a surrogate is that you have a support person. This could be a partner, a family member, or a close friend: someone you love and trust.  If you have more than one support person, all the better!

You Are Financially Stable

While being a surrogate does qualify you for surrogate compensation, you should be financially independent before starting the surrogacy journey. Our surrogates may not be receiving welfare, using Medicaid, or supplemental security income (SSI).

Is Surrogacy Right For You?

If you’ve decided to become a surrogate, or have questions about becoming a surrogate, Pathways to Parenthood can answer your questions and guide you through the process. We have helped surrogates and intended parents come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois and Arkansas, Ohio and Kentucky. We can help you too!

A Surrogate’s Story Happy Ending

Pathways To Parenthood surrogate wrapped up 2022 in a very special way! She delivered a beautiful surro-baby girl for her excited parents.  As you can see from the pictures, Annie and parents to be were in great anticipation of the arrival of their much-awaited baby.  We are happy to be able to share a part of their journey with you.

Annie has been sharing her surrogacy story with others on Instagram, Tik Tok and Facebook, and we have been following along!  Her posts were insightful, inspiring, funny and awe-inspiring.  We were all so lucky to be a part of Annie bringing her surro-baby into the world.  The parents are beyond grateful and so are we! Way to go Annie!

If you are considering becoming a surrogate like Annie, let Pathways to Parenthood Surrogacy Agency guide you through the process. We have helped surrogates and intended parents come together in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois and Arkansas, Ohio and Kentucky!  We would love to help you too! You can contact us at 913-469-5500 or at www.pathwaystoparenthood.com

The Surrogacy Pregnancy Half-Way Point

Featuring:  Surrogate Annie McCabe

Surrogate Annie McCabe is not a newcomer to the surrogacy process or the milestone 20-week appointment.  Annie is now more than halfway through her second surrogacy pregnancy, and she has had two prior pregnancies for her own two children.  But the anticipation and excitement of the 20-week sonogram appointment is as exciting as it ever was!

Annie shared her thoughts and feelings about her recent 20-week check-up appointment by answering a few questions about the experience.

1. Did the parents join you for the appointment?

Yes!  The parents attended the appointment with me!  I loved having them there and sharing the moment.  I feel like the 20-week appointment is a big one and it’s the first chance to really see the baby. Makes it all very real for everyone!

2,  Did you find out the gender of the baby?

We did not. The intended parents have decided to wait!! Which I love!! I found out with both my keepers, and they found out with their first, so we are all excited about finding out at delivery.

3.  What was the best part of the appointment for you?

Just seeing the baby!!  I loved seeing the little legs and arms move. We had trouble getting a good profile shot but the parents ended up with great pictures of the baby’s face.  It’s so amazing how much change has happened between that first ultrasound and the 20-week scan.

4.  What was the biggest difference between your pregnancies for your own children and your surrogacy pregnancy?

You know I was just as excited about this appointment as a surrogate as I was with my other pregnancies. There is just something about seeing life growing that is so surreal.  And as surrogate, to be a part of that experience with and for another family is indescribable!

5.  What did you do immediately after the appointment?

We looked at the sonogram pictures and were amazed at how great and detailed they were! The parents got some great pictures! We then said our goodbyes and headed off to work.

If you are thinking about becoming a surrogate like Annie, or are looking for the perfect surrogate to grow your family, Pathways To Parenthood Surrogacy Agency can help you get started today! We can answer your questions about the surrogacy process, so you know what to expect and how to get started.  Contact us to schedule a consultation appointment. We can help you like we have helped many other surrogates and future parents in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois, Arkansas, Ohio, Kentucky and New York. We look forward to hearing from you!

 

5 Things I Love About Being A Surrogate: Featuring Betty Vaughn

Becoming a surrogate for the first time is the beginning of an amazing life experience full of surprises, personal growth, and awe!  First time surrogate Betty Vaughn is currently 34 weeks pregnant and shared that she feels it is a blessing to have the ability and opportunity to help someone who has faced struggles and challenges to have a baby and grow their family.

Here are 5 things Betty loves about being a surrogate (in no particular order)!

  1. Helping others by giving a family the blessing of a child. Becoming a surrogate to help someone who has had so many struggles and challenges to have a baby is a blessing for Betty as well as the family she is helping.
  2. Working with a family that lives in a different state. Betty loves to travel and see different ways of life than her midwestern roots.  Surrogacy has given Betty the opportunity to see two new places she has never been before and may not have had the opportunity to see if not for her surrogacy process and pregnancy.
  3. Being pregnant! Surrogacy gave Betty the opportunity to be pregnant again and is one of the major reasons why she wanted to become a surrogate. Her two pregnancies went well, and she wishes everyone was blessed with the same.  Knowing that is not the case motivated her to pursue surrogacy. She especially loves feeling the tossing, turning, kicking and little hiccups again!
  4. The relationship with the parents. Betty especially appreciates the kindness they have shown to her and the great communication they have had throughout the surrogacy process and pregnancy.
  5. Relationships with the amazing healthcare staff. The doctors and nurses at Shady Grove Fertility in New York are very caring and compassionate individuals that helped Betty through the medical process and have supported her more than she expected, or knew she needed. They have stayed in contact with Betty throughout the pregnancy which shows her that she is important to them.  She is grateful and feels very blessed!

If you are thinking about becoming a surrogate like Betty, or are looking for the perfect surrogate to grow your family, Pathways To Parenthood Surrogacy Agency can help you get started today! We can answer your questions about the surrogacy process, so you know what to expect and how to get started.  Contact us to schedule a consultation appointment. We can help you like we have helped many other surrogates and future parents in Kansas, Missouri, Colorado, Oklahoma, Iowa, Illinois, Arkansas, Ohio and Kentucky and New York. We look forward to hearing from you!

 

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