You probably know by now that men and women tend to approach many things in life differently. Neither is right or wrong, just different, and it is important to maintain this perspective throughout the decision making process to use an egg donor. Regardless of these differences, it is essential to develop a joint vision when moving forward with using an egg donor to build your family.
It might be helpful to you to think about what differences exist for you and your partner, and BE SPECIFIC. To build a joint vision, you will likely need to discuss issues that you feel and think differently about. So start with examining your own thoughts and feelings about using a donor to build your family. If you cannot understand your own thoughts and feelings about it, it will be impossible to discuss them with your partner.
If you are having a difficult time sorting through your own thoughts and feelings, or discussing them with your partner, counseling can be helpful. Contact Pathways To Parenthood today and we can assist you in working through the decision making process.